Chester Bennington, Lead Singer of Linkin Park, Dead at 41

[KCKUKFan]

Not really. Just like when an addict chooses drugs over anything- family, job, or just everyday responsibilities. Just like with drugs or alcohol, being happy and content is a choice. And they know this. This is not saying I don't feel for them because I do. Like I said earlier, I knew six people last year who killed themselves and they all had a ton to live for. Most had families and kids. When you put your addictions over that, I just don't know what there is to say. Chester had known drug and alcohol problems. Where you think the depression came from? When you let the devil in, you better pray you can overcome the temptation because when you get that far, prayer and a true faith is about all that can save you. And let me tell you man, prayer and a true belief in God and the Lord Jesus can save you and pull you through. I am proof positive because I would probably be dead now if it wasn't for that great day in August of 1998. You can laugh that off if you wish, but know this- ain't NOBODY perfect man. That's the biggest misconception alive today.

This is an awful take in so many ways. People with depression don't "choose" to have depression, like they would choose to take that first drink. They might try to self-medicate with drugs and alcohol to help with the symptoms of depression, but depression is an actual chemical imbalance in the human brain. It makes everything black, consumes the brain with anxiety and doubt, makes you think thoughts that you don't want to think. You know they're irrational, but they're there all the same. The thoughts and feelings are terrifying. You feel alone. You feel empty. You feel like there is no escape from the hole you're in. And the scariest thing is, it doesn't make any sense. Take it from me. I've dealt with it first hand, and it's the most horrific thing I've ever done. And I have a LOT to live for, don't use drugs or alcohol, and live a drama-free life.

To marginalize depression as a fake illness is foolish, dangerous, and ignorant. You can't just pray it away.

[Uncle Dave]

Death by suicide. Don't know if you older folks know anything about Linkin Park, but they were a big part of my childhood. They were the band in the early to mid 2000s. He committed suicide on Chris Cornell's birthday, who killed himself 2 months ago. Kind of eerie.

You're right Ugly, I knew NOTHING about Linkin Park or Chester Bennington except what I've read here and other sites. It's heartbreaking to hear about anyone taking their own life, particularly one as young as Mr. Bennington. And to hear that he's a victim of sexual abuse makes me sick to my stomach for the guy. I certainly don't condone suicide, and it's disturbing to me that he felt the only way "out" was to take his life. In that regard, I hope he's found some form of peace. For all the fans of the group and man, sorry for your loss.